Making room at the table

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Disciples who make disciples.

Lately, I’ve been feeling unusually expectant about what God might do.

I’ve been spending more time in my Bible in the mornings, and I’ve found myself starting each day with a quiet sense that God has something in store. Not because I’m trying to force anything to happen. If anything, I’m trying to do the opposite. Just to be faithful, stay close to Him, and see what He does with the day.

Yesterday, my last errand was to print some documents. When I walked into the photocopy shop, I noticed the owner was around the corner praying on his prayer mat. He obviously wasn’t going to stop praying to print my documents, so I decided to wander around and come back later.

I ended up at a tiny charcoal barbecue meatball restaurant I’d visited once before with my family. The owner recognized me immediately. I ordered the cheapest thing on the menu, a meatball sandwich, and asked for it to go. I figured I’d eat it somewhere outside while I waited.

But he insisted I sit down.

There were only three small tables in the entire restaurant, each seating four people. One had just opened up, so I sat down by myself.

A few minutes later, three men came in. They were family. One lived nearby, while his uncle and cousin had come to the city from their hometown. They had come to this restaurant specifically because they knew how good it was. They stood beside my table and asked the owner if there was anywhere they could sit.

There wasn’t.

So, I moved my bag off the empty chair and said, “You can sit with me. Come on, let’s eat together.” They looked surprised that I spoke their language, but they gladly joined me. Somehow, within a few minutes, the four of us were sitting around this tiny table chatting like we’d known each other longer than five minutes.

We talked about our respective countries, what school was like for me, and eventually the uncle asked me what my religion was.

“I’m a Christian,” I said.

The cousin didn’t even know what that meant. My new friend explained it to him, and I added a little more.

The conversation switched to English, probably because they realized that if we were going to have THIS conversation, it would be easier for me to share in my native language.
His questions all circled the same thing: how could Jesus be fully human and yet Christians believe He is God?

As we continued eating and chatting, it became clear that he wasn’t trying to debate me. He had questions he couldn’t make sense of, and he wanted to understand what and why Christians believe. For him, this was a chance to finally sit down with a Christian and ask.

Eventually, we finished our meals and prepared to leave. I was already thinking about getting back to the photocopy shop before the owner finished praying and closed for the day.

The uncle went up to the counter and tried to pay—and immediately the playful arguing started, insisting that because he (my new friend) was the host, his uncle and cousin were his guests. They went back and forth over the bill while the restaurant owner took my new friend’s side.

I was grinning and watching this very familiar interaction unfold. I was simply waiting for them to finish so I could pay for my own meal.

When I stepped forward with my wallet, my new friend stopped me. “I cannot let you pay—this is on me.”

I protested. I told him I could pay and that he didn’t need to pay for me. But he wouldn’t have it. “Please. This is our culture.”

So, I agreed. We exchanged contact information and went our separate ways.

I started thinking about how many ordinary things had to happen for us to end up at that table together.
• The photocopy shop owner happened to be praying.
• I happened to wander.
• I happened to walk past a restaurant I’d only visited once before.
• The owner happened to recognize me and insist that I stay.
• And then three men happened to walk in after I’d taken the last table.

None of those things felt particularly significant when they happened. I was just running errands. But by the end of the afternoon, I’d shared a meal with three strangers, had a conversation about Jesus, and made plans to meet one of them again.

I don’t know yet where that conversation will lead. But maybe that’s part of what it means to live expectantly. Not to force something extraordinary to happen, but simply to stay awake to what God might be doing in the ordinary.

Sometimes making room at the table is enough.