The cousin didn’t even know what that meant. My new friend explained it to him, and I added a little more.
The conversation switched to English, probably because they realized that if we were going to have THIS conversation, it would be easier for me to share in my native language.
His questions all circled the same thing: how could Jesus be fully human and yet Christians believe He is God?
As we continued eating and chatting, it became clear that he wasn’t trying to debate me. He had questions he couldn’t make sense of, and he wanted to understand what and why Christians believe. For him, this was a chance to finally sit down with a Christian and ask.
Eventually, we finished our meals and prepared to leave. I was already thinking about getting back to the photocopy shop before the owner finished praying and closed for the day.
The uncle went up to the counter and tried to pay—and immediately the playful arguing started, insisting that because he (my new friend) was the host, his uncle and cousin were his guests. They went back and forth over the bill while the restaurant owner took my new friend’s side.
I was grinning and watching this very familiar interaction unfold. I was simply waiting for them to finish so I could pay for my own meal.
When I stepped forward with my wallet, my new friend stopped me. “I cannot let you pay—this is on me.”
I protested. I told him I could pay and that he didn’t need to pay for me. But he wouldn’t have it. “Please. This is our culture.”
So, I agreed. We exchanged contact information and went our separate ways.
I started thinking about how many ordinary things had to happen for us to end up at that table together.
• The photocopy shop owner happened to be praying.
• I happened to wander.
• I happened to walk past a restaurant I’d only visited once before.
• The owner happened to recognize me and insist that I stay.
• And then three men happened to walk in after I’d taken the last table.
None of those things felt particularly significant when they happened. I was just running errands. But by the end of the afternoon, I’d shared a meal with three strangers, had a conversation about Jesus, and made plans to meet one of them again.
I don’t know yet where that conversation will lead. But maybe that’s part of what it means to live expectantly. Not to force something extraordinary to happen, but simply to stay awake to what God might be doing in the ordinary.
Sometimes making room at the table is enough.